I’m Kim, and I help you show up like you’ve done this before.

  • What do you wear?
  • What do you bring?
  • What’s the proper etiquette when you're holding a cocktail, a clutch, and a conversation — all at once?

Life is full of situations that don’t come with an instruction manual... so I made one. My guide answers the questions you didn’t even know you were supposed to ask, from black-tie galas to backyard BBQs. Whether you’re trying to impress, blend in, or just avoid a social faux pas that ends up on TikTok — I’ve got you covered.

What I do for you

As a lifestyle consultant, I take the guesswork out of social situations — from what to wear and bring, to how to show up with confidence and class. My guide (a.k.a. your new social survival bible) covers most events and everyday dilemmas with style and clarity. For ongoing support, a monthly subscription gives you direct access to personalized advice — including the ability to ask Kim your trickiest “what do I do now?” questions. Because life doesn’t come with instructions... but now, you kind of do.

The Guide
What Would Kim Do?

Definitions

  • Manners are the invisible social glue that keeps us from devolving into a pack of wild raccoons at a dinner party. They're not just about knowing which fork to use (though, yes, it’s probably not the one you stir your coffee with). Manners are how we show respect, empathy, and a tiny bit of self-restraint in a world that could really use more of all three. They're the difference between making an impression and making someone uncomfortable. Think of them as the user manual for being a decent human — and thankfully, they come with unlimited updates.

  • Decorum is what keeps weddings from turning into bar fights and boardrooms from feeling like bingo halls. It’s the social contract’s dress code: unspoken but deeply understood (at least by the people you actually want to sit next to). Decorum isn’t about being boring — it’s about showing up with just enough polish to be taken seriously without killing the vibe. It’s the fine line between “graceful” and “graceless,” and yes, it starts with not yelling across the room or double-dipping your chip.