The Kimmandments Guide

This guide was created to answer the questions you didn’t even know you needed to ask — until you found yourself standing in the doorway of a housewarming party, holding a candle you’re not sure was enough, wearing an outfit you’re not sure was right, wondering if you're supposed to take off your shoes.

Inside, you’ll find:

The 10 Kimmandments- The non-negotiable rules for handling yourself with grace, confidence, and just the right amount of side-eye when necessary.

Glossary- Quick, smart definitions of terms like decorum, poise, and propriety — with just enough sass to remember them. 

What to Wear- Decode every dress code from “beach formal” to “cocktail casual” so you’re never underdressed, overdressed, or confused again.

What to Bring- From the perfect hostess gift to what not to show up with, this section saves you from the awkward “I should’ve brought something” moment.

How to Behave- Real talk on showing up with charm, not chaos — whether you’re meeting your partner’s parents or mingling at a work event.

Dining Decorum- Learn how to survive formal meals, tricky place settings, and networking dinners without spilling anything (figuratively or literally).

Modern Etiquette- Because yes — there is a right way to post, text, RSVP, and cancel plans like an adult.

Kim’s Cringe List- A running list of social red flags, fashion faux pas, and outdated habits it’s time to retire — permanently.

Situational Chic- Your go-to guide for specific events — what to wear, what to bring, what to gift, and how to handle it all without breaking a sweat.

The Kimmandments are your roadmap to being thoughtful, tasteful, and totally unshakable — no matter the event, occasion, or level of chaos.

Because when in doubt… ask: What Would Kim Do?

The A to Z of proper decorum and manners for all of life's social situations is a digital PDF download.